• Uriel238 [all pronouns]@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
    8 hours

    I’m AMAB (presently enby) but since my forties have gotten along swimmingly in lesbian communities. And yes, at one point I wondered if boobs provide an endorphin high to wlw the way they do to het men (or at least to me.)

    It turns out in r/actuallesbians, I didn’t have to wait long to learn my answer. Hornyposting about boobs was a regular thing when I was there.

        • Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.deEnglish
          1 hour

          It’s not like it’s rational, some people’s brains are just hard-wired to find them actively pleasurable to look at.
          At least that’s how it is for me, it’s not just a turn-on, it literally just feels good to see a nice pair, to the point that if they perfectly match the variables in my brain it’s slightly alarming how close it gets to some sort of eldritch cognitohazard.

          But then this applies to almost literally every part of a feminine body, the perfect stomach or neck takes me instantly past the “AWOOOOGA” stage and into drooling vegetable. And all of it on a single person is… so fundamentally delightful that it actually kinda hurts.

          But i’m not sure if this is a universal experience, i get the vibe that i’ve sorta unlocked this by being sufficiently in-tune with or accepting of my desires. In any case it fucking rocks to the degree that the closest thing i have to religion is “everyone deserves to experience this and be in a relationship with a person who triggers it for them”.

        • mrmisses@lemmy.worldEnglish
          15 hours

          As a person into women, I also do not care for boobs. The smaller the better

    • toynbee@piefed.socialEnglish
      16 hours

      I’m a cis man (and so therefore famously tuned into the preferences of those who aren’t) but, until I read this comment, I thought (almost) everyone did.

      • velma@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
        15 hours

        I have friends who are straight that can appreciate how clothing fits and such, but boobs don’t do anything sexually for them at all.

        • toynbee@piefed.socialEnglish
          7 hours

          I can respect that, but I still find it surprising. Thanks for the answer!

        • psycotica0@lemmy.caEnglish
          10 hours

          Sure sure, sexually, but they must admit boobs can be soft for head, and when you shake them they go blublublublublub, no? Surely they must! Maybe they just haven’t shaken them properly…

          • somethingsnappy@lemmy.worldEnglish
            4 hours

            I like books well enough. But like you say, one of biggest reasons is soft for head. I mean, couch cuddling, anyone?

  • MrKoyun@lemmy.worldEnglish
    17 hours

    I’d love to announce that I loved dick if it didnt mean certain near-complete social isolation and shunning along with a not insignificant chance of getting beaten 💀

    • Uriel238 [all pronouns]@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
      8 hours

      Curiously, it’s often not even okay for het women to admit to liking dick in the current climate.

      Around the end of the COVID-19 epidemic (when we finally had vaccines and stuff), I remember a refreshing article in a women’s magazine that was a post-hoc discussion of an online confessional for women who dangerously liked dick: women who risked infection by consensually having sex with strangers during the lockdown.

      Anyway, Overton window be damned, it’s totally valid to like dick (or not).

    • velma@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
      17 hours

      I’m sorry you’re not in a safe time and place to come out yet. We’re here for ya in the meantime <3

    • birdwing@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
      15 hours

      Hey sib, you are valid 🫂🏳️‍🌈

      Here’s to a world in where everyone can consensually love each other’s dick, cunt, or anything between and outside, and even handholding and personality…

    • frog@feddit.ukEnglish
      16 hours

      I am sorry this is the world we live in. You are great just as you are.

    • chiliedogg@lemmy.worldEnglish
      15 hours

      What’s worse is that I’m still not 100% certain if you’re saying you’re afraid of being shunned and beaten for being gay, or because women are supposed to pretend to be pure and innocent or face being shunned and potentially attacked by jealous partners.

  • lanigerous@feddit.ukEnglish
    14 hours

    Ikr?! Should be a Cloudflare bot detection: no-one dislikes boobs, only bots.

    • forestbeasts@pawb.socialEnglish
      5 hours

      *raises paw* It me, I dislike boobs.

      (male, gay, wolf-in-all-but-body here. Even female wolves don’t have boobs, hah! They’re a weird human thing.)

      – Frost

      • ButteredBread@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
        5 hours

        In humans they wre just for producing milk, every mamal has those organs even if they are not as visible but again it depends on how you define the word. I guess that was obvious sorry if i like treated you as if you were dumb or anything I don’t think that just to clarify.

        • forestbeasts@pawb.socialEnglish
          5 hours

          Oh totally, wolves totally have nipples and stuff!

          It’s just not like, y’know, Two Big Honkers haha. Boobs as a sexual thing actively turn me off.

          – Frost

          • ButteredBread@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
            4 hours

            Oh yea sorry it was a kinda dumb response on my part it’s kinda late.

            Still it is really weird humans have breasts, from what I gathered other primates fo have breasts but only during breast feeding and all.

            Humans appear to maybe have permanent breasts in females cuz they stand in 2 legs, making breasts basically what they are now, just a sexual attractor ( I don’t think that is a termbut I think the point is clear enough) I think it could be inconvenient but it isn’t that weird, actually just like how some birds can have different colors depending on their sex.